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The Views of Children in Parenting Matters


Parenting matters are determined based on a court’s assessment of what is in the best interests of the child or children. The Family Law Act sets out what factors are to be considered in assessing what is in the best interests of a child. These include the views of children if they are known. In many cases, it is not possible to ascertain the child’s views or for these to be taken into consideration. This may be because the child is too young to articulate views. However, where a child does express a view, the court must consider and give weight to their views in accordance with their age and maturity and the circumstances in which their views were expressed.

How do children express their views?

Courts hearing family law matters do not allow the children to participate directly in the proceedings. However, various methods exist for courts to obtain the views of the children indirectly. These include:

  • Ordering the preparation of a Family Report. A Family Report is prepared by a psychologist or social worker appointed by the court who interviews all the parties involved, including parents, children and other family members. The report writer assesses the family situation and makes recommendations for suitable parenting arrangements. Family Report writers will often ask the children where they would like to live and what arrangements they would like to have for contact with each parents. How a report writer asks these questions will depend on the age and maturity of the child as well as on the family situation and what form of questioning is appropriate.
  • Appointing an Independent Children Lawyer (ICL) to represent the children’s best interests to the court. An ICL does not act of the instructions of the children, as other lawyers act on the instructions of their client. Rather the ICL arrives at their own assessment of what is in the children’s best interests. An ICL is an independent voice in the proceedings, who may or may not share the position of a parent and who may or may not share the views of the children.
  • Appointing a Family Consultant to meet with and talk to the parties and prepare an assessment for the court.
  • Hearing evidence of what children have said about matters relevant to their welfare. An exception to the rule against hearsay exists in relation to representations made by children under Section 69ZV of the Family Law Act. This exception exists to make sure children do not have to give evidence in parenting proceedings themselves, except where it is absolutely necessary.

Can a child be called as a witness?

It is rare for a child to give oral evidence in a parenting matter.

If a party wants to call a child as a witness in a hearing, they must obtain the court’s permission to do so. The court will consider the following matters when deciding whether to allow the child to be called as a witness:

  1. Any advantage to the proiceedings of hearing the child’s evidence;
  2. Any damage giving evidence may do to the welfare of the child;

In assessing the first consideration, the court will take into account what other evidence (if any) is available, what issues need to be decided, the age and maturity of the child proposed to be called as a witness and how much time has passed since the events in question occurred.

In assessing the second consideration, the court will consider the age and maturity of the child, the views of their guardian, the child’s wishes and feelings and what support the child received from family or others.

If a child is called as a witness, he or she will usually be allowed to give evidence as a ‘vulnerable witness’. This may mean giving evidence via video link from another room in the court house.

How much weight will the children’s views be given?

The court must consider the views expressed by the children in deciding whether to make an order in relation to the children under Section 60CD of the Family Law Act.

How much weight is given to a child’s views will depend on the following factors:

  • The age and maturity of the child;
  • How strongly their views are held;
  • How long they have held the views for;
  •  Whether they appear to have been pressured to form the views;
  • The circumstances under which the views were expressed.

Parties to parenting matters often think that there is a particular age at which a child is allowed to make their own decision about where to live. In reality, the views of children are increasingly taken into account as they age and develop, but will never be the only factor that determines the outcome.

If you require advice or assistance with a family law matter, please contact Armstrong Legal. 

Fernanda Dahlstrom

This article was written by Fernanda Dahlstrom

Fernanda Dahlstrom has a Bachelor of Laws, a Bachelor of Arts and a Graduate Diploma in Legal Practice. She has also completed a Master’s in Writing and Literature. Fernanda practised law for eight years, working in criminal defence, child protection and domestic violence law in the Northern Territory and in family law in Queensland.

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